Cool sex is a game of both gates. And a cool blowjob is also a game with two balls. The main thing is to learn the rules. Lifehacker figured out which ones.

Act carefully

No pinching, biting, jerking – it hurts. Too light touches are ticklish. Therefore, test the range of influence: gently take the testicles in your hand and slowly increase the pressure. Ask your partner to share feelings and say “stop” when pressing is no longer pleasant. If you are afraid to inadvertently hurt, invite your partner to put pressure on your palms.

use your hands

With warm and relaxed hands, stroke the scrotum: first with your palms, then connect your fingers.

Try to play with the testicles a little, but do not twist: the right one should remain on the right, and the left one on the left. Move up and down, rolling the testicles between your fingers.

Take both testicles in your hand and slightly pull the scrotum: try this before the approach of orgasm, to increase the sensations.

The suture on the scrotum – the groove of the skin between the testicles – is especially sensitive. Run your fingers over it from the base of the penis to the back of the scrotum.

Connect Language

Now run your tongue from top to bottom along the seam, and then across the entire scrotum, drawing a W or figure eight from the left testicle to the right.

Take one testicle in your mouth (both may simply not fit), suck gently and circle around each with your tongue. Watch your teeth: even a slight pressure can be painful.

Stroke the tongue and other sensitive parts of the scrotum: at the base of the penis and anus. Do not forget to ask your partner where the sensations are most pleasant.

Combine

Focusing only on the testicles may not be enough. It’s more of an addition to foreplay and blowjob. Engage both hands and mouth at the same time: play with the scrotum with one hand, play with the penis with your tongue, and try to caress yourself with your free hand.

Ask to be shown

The main expert in handling the testicles is the partner himself. Ask to show what he does with them during masturbation. Ask what tricks he likes the most and what he would like to try. Finding out each other’s preferences is an important step towards quality sex and mutual pleasure.

Feel free to use lubricants so that your fingers glide better and the sensations are more intense. And take your time: experiment with technique, poses and enjoy!