Medium length penis during erection – about 13 cm. Average depth vagina from the entrance to the cervix – up to 15 cm.

With such dimensions, the penis does not reach the cervix, the pressure on which can be painful. Therefore, the average man and woman do not experience discomfort during sex. But everything changes if the size of the male penis exceeds the conditional norm indicated above.

Even taking into account the fact that the vaginal canal is slightly lengthens when aroused, a penis larger than 17 cm can make sex painful for a partner.

Here are some simple rules that will help you avoid discomfort and get only pleasure from intimacy.

1. Pay special attention to the foreplay

Ideally, if the foreplay is such that the girl will experience the first orgasm even before the member penetrates the vagina. Kiss, petting, caress your partner’s clitoris with your tongue, invite her to masturbate or help her do it using sex toys.

The more excited and relaxed the girl is, the easier the penetration will be.

2. Spare no lubricant

If your partner has a really big penis, natural lubrication will definitely not be enough for you. Remember how hard it can be to put on a ring that is too tight on your finger, and do everything to make it as easy as possible to slide. That is, generously lubricate the penis and vagina with a lubricant (preferably water-based), and add a new portion regularly.

What to buy

• Soft water-based lubricant (240 ml) from Wicked, 3,696 cents →
• Water-based lubricant (29.5 ml) from Swiss Navy, 651 cents →
• Water-based lubricant (100 ml) from Lubry GmbH, 683 cents →

3. Take your time

Hot penetrative sex in the elevator or on the desktop in a quick format, alas, is not for you. Even with lube.

The partner will need time for the penetration of an unusually large dick to be comfortable. If you act quickly and rudely, you can finish playing until the vagina breaks. And it hurts. So much so that the girl is unlikely to want to repeat the unpleasant experience.

4. Use restraint toys

Restrictive cock rings can be found in every adult toy store. This elastic thing is put on the penis and does not allow it to penetrate too deep. The ring also has an important psychological function: a man does not have to constantly monitor the depth of penetration, which means he can relax.

Rings are different. Pay attention to those that have additional attachments for clitoral stimulation.

What to buy

• Erection vibroring from Pipedream, 956 cents →

5. Breathe to relax

This advice applies more to girls. If a partner is nervous and afraid of possible pain, her pelvic floor muscles contract, which means that attempts to penetrate the vagina become more difficult and painful. Deep breathing allows you to calm down, release tension and relax.

However, a man also needs to breathe. At least in order to act more carefully and restrainedly.

6. Choose Safe Postures

That is, those in which a man cannot enter too deeply or a woman will be able to regulate the depth of penetration. These positions are perfect.

rider

The partner lies on his back, the partner “saddles” him from above. The advantage of this position is that with his free hands, a man can caress the clitoris to increase the girl’s arousal.

spoons

Both lie on their sides, the woman with her back to the man. In this position, slow sex is especially good.

Reverse spoons

One of the best positions for gentle, careful sex. The partners lie facing each other, so that the man will instantly notice if his actions hurt the girl and stop. The partner, in turn, can find the ideal position by bending or unbending her legs.

Behind with folded legs

The woman lies on her stomach with straightened legs, the man enters from above. In this position, the vaginal canal lengthens – the more, the stronger the partner reduces and stretches her legs.

Crab

Both sit facing each other with their knees bent. Partners can lean on straightened arms or hug tightly. In this position, the man sees the girl’s emotions and can quickly react if she begins to feel discomfort.

7. Agree on a stop word

Pain is something that cannot be tolerated in sex. Therefore, discuss in advance a conditional sign, after which you immediately stop the intimate game.

As a rule, such a sign is some short, easy-to-pronounce word. For example, in BDSM it is “red” – by analogy with a traffic light. But you can agree on another option.

8. Master Oral Sex

Oral sex, when the partner has a big dick, also requires skill. The girl will have to connect her hands in order not to give the penis…